©2005 Larry Huntsperger Peninsula Bible Fellowship

01-08-06

A Healthy Helping Of Grace

 

1/8/06 A Healthy Helping of Grace

 

For many of us

      this is, I think, in many respects

            the most difficult time of the year.

 

Part of it has to do with Christmas.

 

If it was a great holiday season for you

      in which all of the right family members were there

            and none of the wrong ones,

now that they’ve left

      there is an emptiness,

            a hollowness inside you that makes everything seem bleak.

 

You’ll miss them.

 

And if it wasn’t such a great holiday season,

      and you found ourself

            having to cope with a whole bunch of added people pressures,

                  and financial pressures,

                        and time pressures during the past few weeks,

you’ve probably come through the whole ordeal

      both physically and emotionally exhausted.

 

And then, of course,

      there is the brutal reality of January in Alaska.

 

For many years now

      Sandee and I have had a standing date

            at 10:00 a.m. each day for coffee.

 

We get our coffee in town,

      then park for a few minutes

            at a place that overlooks the river.

 

One day this past week we had some scheduling conflicts

      that required us to change our meeting time to 9:00.

 

And when we arrived at our favorite spot

      it was still nearly dark!

 

With so much darkness,

      and so much cold,

            and so much ice,

                  and the need to regroup or recover from the holidays,

it can be a very hard time of year.

 

So to help us with the battle,

      I’m going to keep us in the first few verses of Philippians for one more week.

 

We spent two weeks in the first six verses of this book a month or so ago,

      and I want to return to where we left off

            just to complete the thoughts.

 

When we were last in the book

      I told you that this remarkable little letter

            is Paul’s survival manual

                  for the prisons in our lives.

 

This letter was written by Paul

      from a Roman prison

            while waiting for a trial

                  that could end with his own execution.

 

Paul, of course, was in a literal,

      physical prison,

but his comments and attitudes

      can be of tremendous value

            in helping us to cope

                  with any circumstances in life

                        that are beyond our control.

 

I sometimes find myself as impressed

      with some of the things NOT said in the New Testament as with the things that are said.

 

Did you know that not once

      in any book in the New Testament

            are God’s people ever referred to as VICTIMS.

 

The concept of being a victim

      as it relates to Christians

            simply does not exist in Scripture.

 

A victim is a person whose life

      is negatively impacted by someone

            or something beyond his control.

 

From our perspective

      Paul was a victim of the hatred of the Jews in Jerusalem

            whose determination to kill him

                  ultimately resulted in his prolonged imprisonment in Rome.

 

Did you know that at one point

      in the chaos that lead up to Paul’s imprisonment

            there were more than 40 men

                  who had bound themselves under a vow not to eat or drink until Paul was dead?

 

Sounds to me like Paul

      was clearly the victim of intense

            and unjustified hatred.

 

Ever felt like a victim?

 

If you’ve ever felt like you were in prison

      you have undoubtedly felt like a victim.

 

Maybe you saw yourself as the victim of a job you hate,

      or a boss who hates you,

            or a family situation that’s tearing you apart.

     

Perhaps you’ve seen yourself

      as the victim of events in your past,

the intentional

      or unintentional sins of others,

            sins that have forced you to deal with evil in your own life

                   you would never otherwise have had to face.

 

It is impossible to live in this world

      without being victimized

            at some points

                  by someone or something

                        that we would never have chosen for ourselves.

 

And the world was really no different

      2000 years ago.

 

The reality of evil has been the backdrop of the human race

      since Cain killed Able.

 

So then why isn’t the concept of being a victim

      dealt with in Scripture?

 

Why doesn’t Paul talk to us

      about the way in which he has been victimized by the Jerusalem Jews

            and by the Roman Government?

I think it is because God is committed

      to offering us the truth,

and the truth is that circumstances

      never make us a victim -

the only thing that has the power

      to make us a victim

            is our attitude towards those circumstances.

 

At the heart of the victim mentality

      is the belief that my happiness,

            and my success,

                  and my future

are all being controlled by someone

      or something else.

 

“I would like to choose a different life,

      a different place,

            a different way,

but I’m a victim of forces beyond my control,

      and all I can do is hang on

            and hope the world will treat me better in the future.”

 

Now set that attitude next to that statement we looked at

      when we were in this passage last month.

 

Phil. 1:6

      For I am confident of this very thing, that He who began a good work in you will perfect it until the day of Christ Jesus.

 

That statement is carefully designed

      to serve as the ultimate in anti-victim mentality.

 

Paul is telling his readers

      that no one and nothing can ever prevent God

            from accomplishing His healing and restoring work

                  in the life of the Christian.

 

Now look at this -

      Paul is not trying to suggest

            that bad stuff didn’t happen to us,

                  or that it didn’t hurt,

                        or that it didn’t deeply affect our lives.

 

But what he is saying

      is that the stuff that happened

            is not what determines

                  our hope

                        or our future.

 

I’ll tell you the way I word this truth to myself.

 

I see God telling me

      that anything I choose to place into His hands

            He has the power to reshape  

                  into good in my life.

 

I can become a victim

      only at those points in my life

            where I choose to believe

                  that God either does not care

                        or is not able to use the circumstances in my life for my greater good.

 

And wait ‘till you see where Paul goes from here.

 

Let me put verse 7 together with verse 6.

 

Verse 6 says,

For I am confident of this very thing, that He who began a good work in you will perfect it until the day of Christ Jesus.

 

And then,

       in the next verse Paul goes on to say,

For it is only right for me to feel this way about you all, because I have you in my heart, since both in my imprisonment and in the defense and confirmation of the gospel, you all are partakers of grace with me.

 

Now for us to make any sense

      out of what Paul is saying here in this 7th verse

            we need to talk for just a minute

                  about that word “grace”

                        that Paul uses at the end of that sentence.

 

We’ve looked at all sorts of definitions

      for the word “GRACE” at different times.

 

Sometimes it’s defined as “unmerited favor”,

      sometimes its defined as “God’s riches at Christ’s expense”.

 

I like to define grace as God picking us up and hugging us.

 

Underlying all our attempts to define the grace of God

      is the central truth that it means we are able to come into direct contact

            with the reality of God’s personal love for us

                  because the barrier of our sin

                        has been removed forever through Christ.

 

It is the Grace of God

      that allows us to discover

            that the Creator of all that is

is not only all-powerful,

but He is also incredibly,

            and unfathomably good!

 

OK, now let me read that 7th verse once again.

For it is only right for me to feel this way about you all, because I have you in my heart, since both in my imprisonment and in the defense and confirmation of the gospel, you all are partakers of grace with me.

 

Now, what events in Paul’s life

      enabled both he and the Philippians

            to become a partaker of God’s grace?

 

He says it was his imprisonment,

      and what Paul calls “...the defense and confirmation of the gospel”.

 

Do you hear what he is saying?

 

He is saying that the two events

      that have opened him up more fully, more deeply

            to the realty of God’s love for him

                  were his being thrown into prison

                        and his being required to offer some sort of defense

                              for why he should not be executed

                                    for his involvement in Christianity.

 

He is saying that

      not only has his being thrown in prison

            not made him a victim,

but it has actually proved to be

      the doorway through which

            he has been able to more deeply experience the grace of God.

 

HUH?

 

Paul is telling us that

      not only has his prison experience

            NOT hindered his awareness

                  of His Lord’s love for him,

but it has actually intensified

      his awareness of that love.

 

Have you ever wondered why

      God hasn’t fixed the things in your life

            that really need fixing?

 

Here we are, members of the tiny elite

      who have heard the voice of God

            and responded to His call

                  and placed our lives into His hands.

 

We are the few, the chosen, the holy.

 

We are among the few in human history

      who are in league with God Himself.

 

We’re not playing at religion,

      we’re not just tossing a few bones

            in the direction of the Hound of Heaven

      hoping He’ll be distracted

            and leave us alone.

 

We have dared to reach out to His nail-scared hand

      and identify ourselves with Him.

 

We are now and forevermore on His team.

 

So then why in the world

      doesn’t He fix things for us?

 

I mean,

      why doesn’t He use some of that infinite power of His

            to fix what’s wrong with our life,

                  or the lives of those we love?

 

Do you know the really big question

      that I see coming out of the book of Philippians?

 

If Paul really was God’s chosen man,

      living a life that was well-pleasing to God,

            why was he in prison in the first place?

 

And as long as we’re asking questions,

      why did Epaphroditus get sick?

And perhaps even more to the point,

      why has God not done something about that prison He has YOU in right now?

 

Why didn’t He change Paul’s circumstances?

      And why hasn’t He changed yours?

 

In verses 7 - 12 of this first chapter of Philippians

      Paul allows his own life

            to offer a few answers to those questions.

 

And the first answer he offers

      is found in this 7th verse.

 

Paul tells us in this 7th verse

      that his imprisonment has allowed

            both he and the Philippians

                  to become partakers of the grace of God in a very special way.

 

Or, if I were to restate what I see Paul saying,

there are some things about His love that God can only say to us inside a prison cell.

 

Do you remember that little incident

      recorded for us in Exodus chapter 14?

 

The nation of Israel had been living in the land of Egypt,

      slaves to the Egyptian people.

 

It certainly wasn’t a good life,

      but it was predictable,

            familiar,

                  safe.

 

They did their work,

      and their Egyptian rulers fed them,

            and clothed them,

                  and provided them with a place to live.

 

Then God stepped into their lives

      through the person of Moses

            and made it clear that this was not the life He had in mind for His people.

 

Through a dramatic series of miracles

      God freed the Israelites from slavery

            and promised to lead them

                  into the land He had prepared for them,

      a land described as “flowing with milk and honey”.

And He even took a pillar of fire

      and placed it in the sky at night,

and a pillar of cloud

      during the day to lead them.

 

Sounds like a great deal, huh?

 

Several million people following God

      to a life of freedom and abundance.

 

Do you know where God lead them first?

 

Right up to the banks of the Red Sea -

      no boats,

            no bridge,

                  no way around.

 

And to complicate things even more

      he placed a furious Egyptian army

            at their backs,

an army hungry for revenge.

 

In other words, this loving God of the nation of Israel

      led His people directly into prison.

 

Why?

 

Because there are some things about His love that God can only say to us inside a prison cell.

 

Because these people had lived for 450 years in a sub-human existence

      in which they neither knew God

            nor believed they needed Him

                  because their very meager existence

                        was provided by the man who held the whip 

                              and told them where to work that day,

if they were ever to discover

      the abundant life God had for them

step one was learning they could trust Him,

      no matter what He said,

            no matter where He led,

                  no matter what they saw

                        in front of them or behind.

 

You see, there are some things about His love that God can only say to us

            inside a prison cell.

 

You might enjoy reading that 14th chapter of Exodus on your own

      just to remind yourself how things worked out for Israel.

 

The parallels, of course, are obvious.

 

When we come to our Lord

      or more accurately, when He comes to us,

            we, too, are in a sub-human existence,

                  our own type of slavery.

 

We don’t know our God,

      we certainly don’t trust Him.

 

We just crank out our own pitiful,

      futile little brand of performance

            and someone rewards us

                  with food, and shelter, and something to wear.

 

We pretend it’s a great life,

      because we have no alternative,

but inside we know it’s all emptiness

      and games.

 

And then our Lord steps into our life

      and calls us to Himself.

 

In His own perfect way

      He tells us that this pitiful existence

            was not what He created us for.

 

He created us for Himself,

      and longs to lead us into real life,

            life abundantly.

 

And so we start to follow.

 

But before we’ve hardly begun,

      we, too, find ourselves in prison.

 

Maybe the bars are made of fear,

      or incredible loneliness.

 

Maybe it’s a financial prison,

      or maybe our bars are made

            out of some powerful addiction,

                  or an aching empty feeling of futility.

 

But whatever it looks like,

      it does NOT look like the promised land,

            or any kind of abundant life.

 

Why?

 

Because we, too, have no idea

      what it means to trust our Lord.

 

And there are some things about His love that God can only say to us inside a prison cell.

 

Paul says that his prison has been the doorway

      through which he was able to partake

            of the grace of God,

through which he was able to

      feel the reality of God’s hug

            in a way he could never have done

                  had the bars and chains not surrounded him.

 

You see, its one thing

      for Paul to hear God saying, “I love you”

            when he is charging around the world

                  starting churches,

                        and preaching sermons,

                              and working miracles,

                                    and doing great things for the Kingdom.

 

But it is a very different thing

      for Paul to hear God saying, “I love you”

            when he finds himself just sitting day after day after day.

 

It is one thing for Paul to hear his Lord saying to him,

       “You will find Me adequate for your needs this day”

            when he is standing before several thousand people

                  preaching the Word.

 

But it is a very different thing for Paul to hear his Lord saying,

       “You will find Me adequate for this day”

            when all that day may hold

                  is boredom and inactivity.

 

Let me see if I can simplify

      what I’m trying to say here.

 

Our Lord has every one of us

      in the same basic training program -

            we are in the process

                  of learning how to trust our God -

      to trust both what He says,

            and what He does in our life,

                  to trust His love.

 

But trusting His love

      is something we have never done

            prior to our entrance into the kingdom,

and something that very definitely

      does not come naturally.

 

And so, because He loves us,

      and He wants very much for us

            to know His love,

                  and trust His love,

there are times when He allows us

      to spend some time in prison.

 

He places us into a situation

      where we have no alternative

            but to reach out to Him

                  for the strength to face the day,

                        and for the hope of finding a way out.

 

And there are some things about His love

      that God can only say to us inside a prison cell,

and there is a special kind of grace

      that can only be experienced

            behind bars.