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Redeeming The Wounded |
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6/5/05 Redeeming The Wounded
I started something three weeks ago
that I thought I could walk away from
but found out I could not.
And so this morning we are going to return to it once again.
In fact, some of what we will look at during the next few minutes
are thoughts that I jotted down
while Sandee and I were on our way to California a few weeks ago.
Normally when we go on vacation
I don’t even think about writing anything.
But this past trip
I did something I have rarely done before -
I wrote some of the notes for what I will share with you this morning.
And I did it because, following our time together three weeks ago
I had thoughts going on in my mind,
thoughts I simply didn’t want to walk away from,
and definitely didn’t want to loose.
If you were here,
you may remember
that, as one of my many side-tracks from my comments on parenting,
we spent some time looking at the kind of attacks
that Satan uses in his efforts to blind us to the love of our God for us.
I mentioned in that talk that, just as God has placed within each child
a basic faith response to Him,
so Satan’s strategy is to bombard us during childhood
with his “proofs” that God cannot be trusted.
In effect
he attempts to wound our childhood spirits
with wounds of such a nature
as to make it much more difficult for us to reach out in faith to God in our adult years.
And the question is not,
“Who has been wounded
and who has not?”,
because the truth is
we have all been wounded in childhood.
Some of us were wounded
by being given the message
that “love” and acceptance are things we are given
in exchange for a certain level of performance,
and of course
it was always a level of performance
that we could never seem to achieve.
And once that message was recorded within us in childhood
it now replays itself in our minds with absolute authority
over and over again in our relationship with God as adults.
Some of us were wounded
by an adult in our life
who used us for their own pleasure, or their own gain, or their own ego goals.
Such wounds may have come through something as socially acceptable
as a parent driving a child to “succeed” so that the parent can then feel good about themselves,
or through something as hideous and blatantly evil as physical or sexual abuse.
But once that wound is inflicted in childhood
we then transfer it right over to our relationship to God in our adult years,
and we see this God of ours
as always having His own hidden agenda
and we know there is no way He can ever really be trusted.
Some of us were wounded
through our receiving messages that said, “You never do it right”,
or “I can never trust you”,
or “you’re so ugly”,
or “you’re so stupid’,
or “you should have been a girl”,
or “you should have been a boy”,
or “you should never have been born”.
And now, as adults,
those authority messages that came to us as children
are, in our minds, transferred over to the ultimate Authority - God,
and our God seems so distant,
and so unpleasant,
and so continually displeased with us.
Or we may respond by finding ourselves driven to prove ourselves to the world,
driven to prove, at any cost, that we do have value.
But somehow, no matter how much we do,
it’s never enough to bring us peace with ourselves,
or an awareness of peace with our God.
Some of us were wounded
by a parent who simply abandoned us,
walked out of our lives either physically or emotionally.
And, as children, we very likely assumed that it was our fault,
that they left because we were so unlovable,
so unworthy of their faithfulness to us.
And now, as adults,
we anticipate the same abandonment from our God
for exactly the same reasons.
Some of us were wounded
through adults who created within us
tremendous fears of forces in this world over which we have no control,
forces that we were told have the power to destroy our lives.
They may have done this indirectly
through they themselves always living before us
a life filled with fear.
Or they may have done it directly
by giving us well intended messages
that were misunderstood in our childhood minds,
messages that taught us to fear-
to fear people,
or to fear governments,
or to fear those in authority over us,
or to fear germs, or diseases, or darkness, or wilderness, or the future, and on and on.
And my point here with all of this
is simply that those wounds that are inflicted during our childhood years
are the ones that create the stage and the mental characters
upon which we then play out our entire adult lives.
But that, of course,
is only half of the picture.
That is the system software we bring with us into our adult years.
It is the mental environment
in which we then play out our responses to
and our understanding of everything else that enters our lives.
When I first shared some of these thoughts with you three weeks ago
I did so in the context of our adult relationships
with those children whose lives we have input into,
urging us to stay sensitive to the wounds Satan is seeking to inflict on their lives,
and then doing what we can
to protect them from those wounds,
and to disarm the power of them when they occur.
We do that
by replacing the lies with the truth -
the truth about our God,
and about the nature of His love for us.
Everyone of those wounds
derive their destructive power
through some powerful lie
that is imbedded within them.
“Your value as a person is based upon your ability to perform.”
“Your value is based upon your sex, or your appearance, or your behavior.”
“You have no value except as someone to be used by others for their pleasure or gain.”
“There are forces in this world over which God has no control.”
And on and on.
And tragically,
sometimes one of the greatest offenders
in the perpetuation of some of these lies
is the religious community we enter into when we come to Christ,
a community that all too often tells us,
“Your value to God is based upon your ability to perform for Him.”,
or “God loves you when you obey and rejects you when you do not.”
Many such messages are given, of course,
with the hope that they will then motivate the people of God
to perform better
and to behave better,
but in the end
they create such a sense of tension between us and our God
that it becomes all but impossible for us to hear His love for us
and respond to it.
And we, like Adam and Eve in the garden,
spend our lives hiding from Him in our shame and fear,
peaking out at Him from the shadows of our lives.
I really do not want to make this whole thing
more complicated than it is,
so let me summerize it this way.
The only thing in life
that truly has the ability to transform us
in a way that produces within us
both true righteous living
and true, healthy productivity
and the ability to love God and to love those around us
is our growing discovery of the love of our God for each of us.
Satan’s primary strategy in our lives
is to blind us to that love
through wounding our spirits in ways
that make the love of God for us appear absurd,
and then by his pointing us toward performance-based religious systems
that make it even more difficult for us to hear the truth.
But whenever the human spirit
can break free from the lies
to the point where we can gain even a tiny glimpse
of the true nature of God’s love for us
the result will be a hunger and a thirst deep within us
to live a life that brings honor to our God.
And whenever we have contact with children,
if we understand the kind of battles that are taking place
and think in terms of those wounds Satan is seeking to inflict on them,
wounds designed to blind them to the depths of God’s love for them,
our goal is to trust that God’s Spirit will show us
how to disarm those lies
before they become destructive.
But there is another whole aspect of this thing
that I want us to look at.
It concerns not our relationship with children,
but rather our relationship with ourselves.
Because, of course, all of us have been wounded as well.
And no matter how skilled our parents and teachers may have been
in their efforts to diffuse those lies in our lives as we grew up,
the truth is
that all of us enter our adult years
with many wounds that have gone unhealed,
and lies that blind us to the heart of our God.
In other words,
we all enter our adult years
in need of a healing work at the spirit level
that only God Himself can accomplish within us.
We need a Savior,
we need a healer of our souls.
And in the rest of the time we have together this morning
I want to take us to a remarkable passage in the book of Isaiah.
It is a passage in which God reveals to us
the kind of work He wants to accomplish in our lives through Christ.
It doesn’t say much about how He does it,
but it reveals a great deal to us
about what He is seeking to do.
And that, I think,
is the doorway through which we can then begin finding the how.
You do see our situation, don’t you?
We all have within us these wounds
that blind us to the true nature of Christ’s love for us.
And we can only find healing from the wounds
through our discovery of His love.
But the wounds themselves
are the very things
that keep us from seeing the love we need for our healing.
So what does our God do?
He reaches out to us, His creation,
with a demonstration of His love
designed to blast through our fears,
and our wounds,
and our lies at such a level
that we can begin hearing the true nature of His heart for us.
ROM 5:8 But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in
that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
1JO 4:10 In this is love, not that we loved God, but that
He loved us and sent His Son to be the propitiation for our sins.
JOH 3:16 For God so loved the world, that He gave His
only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish, but have
eternal life.
And we could spend the rest of the morning
looking at statements given to us by our God
that tell us the same thing over and over.
But He doesn’t stop there
because He knows how confused we are,
and how difficult it is
for us to accept the true nature of His love for us.
So, after telling us that Christ is His greatest expression of His love for us,
He then goes on to explain
exactly what it is that Christ seeks to accomplish in our lives
so that there will be no confusion
about how He defines “love”.
And that’s what we have going on
in this passage from Isaiah.
And we know with absolute certainty
that the passage really is talking to us
about Christ
and about what He wants to accomplish in our lives
because He Himself said so.
Listen to this!
LUK 4:16-21 And He came to Nazareth, where He had been
brought up; and as was His custom, He entered the synagogue on the Sabbath, and
stood up to read. And the book of the prophet Isaiah was handed to Him. And He
opened the book, and found the place where it was written, “The Spirit of the
Lord is upon Me, Because He anointed Me to preach the gospel to the poor. He
has sent Me to proclaim release to the captives, And recovery of sight to the
blind, To set free those who are downtrodden, To proclaim the favorable year of
the Lord.” And He closed the book, and gave it back to the attendant, and sat
down; and the eyes of all in the synagogue were fixed upon Him. And He began to
say to them, "Today this Scripture has been fulfilled in your
hearing."
You do see what’s happening here, don’t you?
Jesus takes a passage of prophecy written by Isaiah,
reads it to those in that synagogue,
and then tells them, “When Isaiah wrote these words more than 700 years ago
he was writing about Me.”
Now, the whole passage actually takes up three chapters in Isaiah’s writing,
chapters 60, 61, and 62.
The specific words read by Jesus
come from the first few verses of chapter 61.
And I would like us
to look more closely at that 61st chapter
because it will give us a remarkable picture
of the things Christ will seek to accomplish
in the lives of those who come to Him.
And don’t go getting religious on me here.
Don’t switch into your nonpersonal doctrinal mode
and miss what’s really being said.
Remember those wounds
inflicted on you during your own childhood.
And then set this description of the work that Christ seeks to do in your life
next to those wounds.
And listen closely
to what it is
He is seeking to do within you.
ISA 61:1 The Spirit of the Lord God is upon me,...
And let me stop right there
so that we do not miss
the most important part
of everything else that is happening in this passage.
Folks,
this is God the Father,
and God the Spirit
speaking through God the Son.
Let me say it even more simply.
This is God Himself
speaking with clarity and simplicity
to us, His creation.
This is a clear,
perfect view
into the heart of God.
And listen to what He says.
...because the Lord
has anointed me To bring good news to the afflicted; He has sent me to bind up
the brokenhearted, To proclaim liberty to captives, And freedom to prisoners;
ISA 61:2 To proclaim the favorable year of the Lord, And
the day of vengeance of our God; To comfort all who mourn,...
OK, we know who’s speaking - God Himself.
And now we also know who He’s speaking to.
He’s speaking to the afflicted,
and the brokenhearted,
and the captives,
and the prisoners,
and all who mourn.
That is a perfect description
of the end result
of that vicious wounding process
brought about in each of our lives by Satan,
those wounds that have left us afflicted in spirit,
and brokenhearted - filled with sorrows for which we don’t even know the causes,
captives of our weakness,
prisoners of the lies we have believed,
with spirits that mourn for the loss of who we might have been,
who we could have been
had our lives not been damaged by our own sins,
and by the sins of others against us.
But look at the offer He’s making.
Look at the exchange He wants to make.
To the afflicted He wants to bring GOOD NEWS.
To the brokenhearted He wants to bring healing.
To the captives He wants to bring liberty.
To the prisoners He offers freedom.
And He wants to comfort all of us who mourn.
From there
our God then goes on to offer us visual images
with which to help us picture
these exchanges He’s seeking to offer us.
ISA 61:3 To grant those who mourn in Zion, Giving them a
garland instead of ashes, The oil of gladness instead of mourning, The mantle
of praise instead of a spirit of fainting.
What a bargain, huh?
And then He goes on
to give us powerful word pictures
of the end result of His involvement in our lives,
and of the work His involvement will accomplish within us.
So they will be called oaks of righteousness, The
planting of the Lord, that He may be glorified.
ISA 61:4 Then they will rebuild the ancient ruins, They
will raise up the former devastations, And they will repair the ruined cities,
The desolations of many generations.
Now there is, of course,
one aspect of this prophecy
that is targeted specifically
at the literal restoration of the Nation of Israel.
But the Lord’s reference to this passage
as a description of His work in the lives of His people
makes it clear that He is also talking about the rebuilding of our lives
that He will accomplish within those who come to him.
He knows our lives, or spirits have been ravaged
by the attacks we have suffered
and the lies we have believed.
When He talks about “the desolations of many generations”
I believe He is talking
about those patterns of wounding
that are so often handed down in our families
from one generation to the next.
And what He offers us
is His rebuilding of the ancient ruins,
His restoration in our lives,
His rebuilding within us
of a quality of life that may not have been seen in our blood line for many generations.
And then He goes on to talk with us
about the way in which His healing within us
will recreate us into a unique people on the earth,
a people who proclaim His truth with our lives,
and serve a vital role in His redemptive work in the world.
ISA 61:6 But you will be called the priests of the Lord;
You will be spoken of as ministers of our God. You will eat the wealth of
nations, And in their riches you will boast.
ISA 61:7 Instead of your shame you will have a double
portion, And instead of humiliation they will shout for joy over their portion.
Therefore they will possess a double portion in their land, Everlasting joy
will be theirs.
He continues on in the next few verses
with comments about the impact His healing within us
will have on the generations that come after us,
and then He ends the chapter
with a concluding picture
of the
impact His healing will have on us.
Is. 61:10-11 I will rejoice greatly in the Lord, My soul
will exult in my God; For He has clothed me with garments of salvation, He has
wrapped me with a robe of righteousness, As a bridegroom decks himself with a
garland, And as a bride adorns herself with her jewels. For as the earth brings
forth its sprouts, And as a garden causes the things sown in it to spring up, So
the Lord God will cause righteousness and praise To spring up before all the
nations.
Now, I know this passage does not answer the question
of how our God accomplishes this work within us.
But that is not what it is intended to do.
What it is intended to do for us
is to forever strip away our fears
of our God’s intentions in our lives.
Are you still afraid of Him?
Do you churn over what He might do in you
or to you if you risk reaching out to Him?
If so,
then I urge you to begin with these three chapters in Isaiah,
and accept them as they were offered to us by our God,
the pure and perfect window
into those things our God seeks to accomplish
in the lives of all those who reach out to Him.