©2005 Larry Huntsperger Peninsula Bible Fellowship

07-03-05

Strong In The Lord

 

7/3/05 Strong In The Lord

 

We are going to return to our study of the book of Ephesians this morning,

      picking up our study in the last chapter,

            with Paul’s final comments in this remarkable letter.

 

Though we have been in and out of this letter

      for a considerable length of time,

            the basic message Paul is seeking to communicate is really quite simple.

 

Writing exclusively to Christians,

      in the first half of the letter

            he tells us who we really are - who we have become through Christ,

and then, in the second half of the letter,

      he tells us how we can live in a way

            that is consistent with who we really are,

or in the words he uses,

      how we can “walk in a manner worthy of our calling”.

 

What he tells us in the first half about who we are

      is nothing short of remarkable.

 

He describes for us

      a recreative work of God accomplished by Him within each Christian

            in which God places His Spirit within us,

                  equips each of us with our own unique ability to proclaim the life of Christ through us,

                        tells us that we are now the physical Body of Jesus Christ here on this earth,

                              and then tells us that we are now the primary means

                                    through which the manifold wisdom of God is now made known to all of creation.

 

To each believer He is saying,

      “Do you understand the true nature of this remarkable relationship

            that God has established between you and Himself?

You now literally live each day of your life

      with the presence of the Spirit of God within you,

            and He has chosen you as the means through which He now reveals Himself to the world.”

 

And then,

      in the second half of the letter

            in broad strokes Paul offers us

                  the approach to life

                        that will enable the Spirit of God to express Himself through us

                              in the most effective ways possible.

 

The first half of the letter reveals to us our calling,

      and the second reveals to us

            the choices we can make

                  that will then enable that calling to become a living daily reality in our lives.

 

And I need to remind you that the “how to” section

      doesn’t look anything like what we would expect

            if we have been listening to so much of what we hear being said

                  throughout the religious world around us.

 

There is nothing here about our attempting to establish great world-wide “ministries”.

 

There isn’t even anything about church programs

      or public presentations of the Gospel,

            or writing books,

                  or conducting seminars,

                        or organizing rallies.

 

What there is, however,

      is a detailed description

            of the way in which we choose to relate to the people around us.

 

And so Paul talks with us

      about the multitude of choices we make in our lives each day -

about the way we talk with one another,

      and the way we talk about one another,

about our relationship to our emotions,

about our sexual relationships,

      about our relationship to our possessions

            and the possessions of others,

about our relationship to alcohol,

about a husband’s relationship with his wife,

      and wife’s relationship with her husband,

about a father’s relationship with his children,

      and about a child’s relationship with his or her parents,

about an employer’s relationship with his or her employees,

      and an employee’s relationship with his or her employer.

 

And through it all

      he carefully builds for us

            that protective moral framework

                  that enables us to understand

                        how to conduct our lives within those boundaries

                              that will allow the Spirit of God to express Himself through us with absolute freedom.

 

And before we move into this last section of the letter,

            I do want to be sure     

            we hear clearly what’s being said to us.

 

The message Paul is giving us here

      is nothing short of remarkable.

 

Having first told us

      that Christ is in the process of living out His life through us,

Paul then tells us

      that we enable Him to do that effectively

            through keeping our own lives within the protective moral framework given to us by our Lord,

                  and through loving the people He has entrusted into our care.

 

That’s it!

 

No neon lights flashing “Jesus Saves” to the world.

      No prime time TV programing.

            No mighty cathedrals or world-wide ministry outreaches.

 

Just Jesus Christ rebuilding one life at a time,

      and then, allowing each rebuilt life

            to contribute to His rebuilding process in others

                  as we reach out in love to them.

 

And for nearly 2000 years now,

      even in the face of all the damage we have done to the truth

            through our man-made religious systems

                  that are all competing with one another

                        and at times fighting with one another under the banner of Christianity,

still God’s basic program of changing the world one person at a time

      is doing very well indeed.

 

Do you really think that your life doesn’t matter?

      Do you think you have little or no ability

            to alter the course of history for good or evil?

 

There is right now

      at least one person in your life

            who is watching you, listening to the sound of your voice

                  for hope,

                        or for encouragement,

                              or for affirmation,

                                    or for the strength to keep going.

 

In truth, most of us have several such people.

 

And every single day

      the choices we make in those relationships,

and especially the things we choose to say

      or choose not to say

            literally alters the course of their lives.

 

Nearly every day of my life

      I witness the tragic evil of words being used to inflict tremendous unnecessary pain,

and the redemptive power of words being used

      to promote healing and reconciliation.

 

Our relationships with those God has placed around us

      are our great calling in life.

 

They are the center of everything

      that Christ is seeking to do both in us and through us.

 

And as such

      they are also what will bring us

            either our greatest sense of purpose and fulfillment

                  or our greatest source of regret.

 

I did something this past week I’ve never done before,

      in fact never even thought about doing.

 

I looked back over the past 40 years of my Christian life,

      and apart from Sandee, Joni, Matt, and Matty who are forever at the center of my life,

            I started jotting down the names

                  of those people over the years

                        that I felt had been entrusted into my care by God in a special way.

 

Of course I know

      that many, perhaps most of you listening to me right now

            have found my teaching to be of value to you in your Christian life.

 

Why else would you listen?

 

I’m not talking about that.

 

I’m talking about those situations

      in which God has at some level

            entrusted another person into my care

                  with the understanding that I would love them,

                        and take responsibility for them,

                              and seek to reproduce myself in them.

 

Do you know how many names were on that list when I finished?

     

Thirty-five.

 

Forty years,

      and thirty-five names.

 

That’s not even one a year.

 

But then I noticed something else as I looked at that list.

 

Many,

      in fact most of those on that list

            have taken what God was able to give them through me

                  and are now passing it on to others.

 

They are doing for others,

      and in others,

            what I was able to do in and for them.

 

And in fact, in their own ways,

      many of them are far better at it than I ever was,

            touching lives that I could have never even gotten near.

 

And as I looked at that list

      I realized that those 35 lives

            are far and away my most significant contribution to this world I will ever make -

infinitely more significant

      than all the teaching

            and all the writing I’ve ever done

                  or ever will do.

 

Because that’s the way God set it up - just one life at a time,

      and one day at a time,

            with no one watching,

                  and no one noticing,

                        and no one waving banners or organizing movements.

 

And I’m not suggesting here

      that we should take this pattern

            and attempt to turn it into a “ministry”.

 

Don’t go looking for someone to “disciple”.

 

If we just start with the one or two or three He’s already given us

      most of us will be pushed to our limits.

 

And if He wants to entrust others to us,

      He’ll do it in the natural course of our lives.

 

Do you think it doesn’t make a difference?

 

I hesitate to do this

      because I have seen the numbers game

            so abused within the world of religion,

but I do find it interesting.

 

You see, if each of those 35 lives I’ve been involved in

      then impact just 10 others in the same way over the course of their lives,

            that’s 350.

 

And if the same pattern is repeated in just one more generation

      that’s 3500 lives.

 

In the first 40 years 35 lives have been affected,

      in the next 40 years that 35 turns into 3500.

 

And it is that calling, that approach that I see at the heart

      of what Paul offers us in this letter to the Ephesians.

 

It’s us allowing our God to bring a measure of healing into our own lives,

      and then His using that healing

            to bring about healing in others, one life at a time.

 

But then Paul ends this letter

      with a powerful reminder

            of the kind of resistance we will always encounter

                  whenever we accept the calling and life priorities given to us by our Lord.

 

He says,

EPH 6:10 Finally, be strong in the Lord, and in the strength of His might.

EPH 6:11 Put on the full armor of God, that you may be able to stand firm against the schemes of the devil.

EPH 6:12 For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the powers, against the world forces of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places.

 

And with his final words

      Paul reminds us once again

            that entrance into the family of God

                  is entrance into warfare.

 

It’s all well and good

      for me to talk about reaching out in love

            to the people God has entrusted into our care,

but the truth is

      ordering our lives in such a way

            that makes that a reality

                  does not happen without our conscious choices to make it happen

                        in the face of very real forces that fight against it.

 

But even here Paul is careful to protect our minds from the lies.

 

This is no call for us to get out there and “do it for the Lord”.

      It’s not even a call for us to get out there and do it for ourselves,

            or for others.

 

Look at that opening phrase.

Finally, be strong in the Lord, and in the strength of His might.

 

What have we heard him saying to us all the way through the letter?

 

The only way this thing will ever work

      is through Christ placing His Spirit within us,

            and then living His life out through us.

 

And here again,

      as Paul offers his final words of challenge and encouragement,

            he tells us that it is never our strength for God,

                  but rather Christ’s strength within us

                        that makes this whole arrangement between us and Him workable.

 

Of course, Paul knows he cannot make a statement like that

      without then sharing with us

            how we go about doing that.

 

In practical terms,

      how does a human being

            allow the strength of God Himself

                  to be the source of his own strength?

 

And he does answer that question for us.

 

He introduces his answer

      through a vivid mental image.

Put on the full armor of God, that you may be able to stand firm against the schemes of the devil.

 

Great stuff, huh?

 

He tells us

      that he is going to explain

            how we can “put on the full armor of God”,

                  an armor that will then enable us to stand firm against Satan himself.

 

But before He does,

      he wants to be sure we understand

            what we’re really up against

                  and why the life of Christ within us

                        is the only thing that makes the Christian life workable.

 

He says,

For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the powers, against the world forces of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places.

 

Are you under stress right now?

      During the past 20 minutes

            as my voice has droned on in the background,

                  have you found your mind returning again and again

                        to that churning point you brought with you into this room this morning?

 

What is it?

 

Is it money?

      If you just had a little more...or a lot,

            your problems would be solved?

 

Or is it that person -

      the one you love whose life is in chaos,

or the one who, for reasons you still don’t really understand,

      seems to have declared war on you,

            turning your life into a daily agony.

 

Maybe it’s your future.

      Maybe, when you try to look into the future,

            you simply cannot see any reason why this pain within you will ever end,

                  or how these needs within you will ever be met.

 

Maybe it’s that addiction that’s causing your turmoil,

      that physical or emotional sink-hole

            you keep getting pulled back into over and over and over again.

 

Maybe it’s your physical health that’s causing the stress.

 

But whatever it is,

      in your mind it probably has a reasonable physical explanation,

            something that makes perfect sense

                  within the context of this physical world.

 

Things have happened

      or not happened

            that have caused the problem.

 

And if other things would happen

      or not happen

            the problem would go away.

 

For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the powers, against the world forces of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places.

 

I don’t know how to say this

      except simply to say it.

 

The war that you are fighting

      is not the war that’s really going on.

 

And the enemies you think you face

      are not the ones you’re really fighting,

            or the ones who are really fighting against you.

 

I know that what I am about to say right now

      will cause some of you to tune me out

            because it will not fit with your perception of reality,

                  and because it’s the type of thing you think preachers are paid say.

 

But I will say it anyway

      because it would be no act of kindness on my part

            for me not to say it.

 

Right now many of you honestly believe

      that there are a wide range of issues in your life,

            all of which are roughly equal in significance and importance.

 

There is your financial situation and all the choices that involves.

      There are your significant relationships with family members and with a number of others.

            There are your work obligations, your daily duties and responsibilities.

                  There is your relationship with God and your understanding of what that means.

                        There are your plans for the future,

                              and your relationship to the past events in your life.

                                    There is your relationship to your physical body and the health issues that involves.

 

And there are a number of other things we could put on that list as well,

      things like your political involvement

            and your involvement in social and community issues and on and on.

 

And if we listen to the conventional wisdom of our society,

      the key word with all of this is BALANCE.

 

Seek out and maintain the proper BALANCE between all of these diverse elements of life.

 

How’s it going?

 

Do you feel balanced yet?

 

If so,

      then why are you still so stressed?

 

It is not balance that will bring harmony to life.

 

It is not balance

      that can bring a correct understanding

            of all of the diverse elements of our lives.

 

That understanding can only come

      from discovering the central purpose in life,

            the purpose from which all other things then take their proper meaning.

 

And what is that central purpose?

 

It is our daily rediscovery

      of the true nature of the love of Christ for us.

 

We are created beings.

 

We exist for relationship with Him.

 

And until that relationship becomes the central issue

      in our relationship with every other aspect of our lives

            nothing else will make sense.

 

You think your stress right now

      is being caused because of the financial pressure you’re under.

 But there is a far greater issue involved.

 

Who is your God in the midst of all of this

      and how does He relate to you?

 

Does your God really love you enough

      to provide for your physical needs?

 

And will you trust that love enough

      to listen to Him

            when He talks with you about your relationship to your money?

 

You think your stress right now

      is being caused by that relationship that’s driving you crazy.

 

But do you realize

      that God has allowed that relationship in your life

            because He knows it will create within you

                  a desperate need for the love,

                        and leadership,

                              and healing of your Creator

as you try to understand your proper role in that relationship?

 

Do you really want to try to fix it yourself?

      Are you determined to allow your bitterness to consume you,

            your anger to drive you?

Do you want to continue to try to control and manipulate?

 

Can I suggest an alternative?

 

Why not come back to the Center of all things.

      “Oh Lord God, show me now

            the steps you want me to take

                  that will promote healing.

      I cannot, I will not carry this any longer.”

 

You see, with every issue in life,

      our calling is not to find balance,

            it is to discover how to find that issue’s proper relationship

                  to the Center of all things - Jesus Christ and our ongoing discovery

                        of the true nature of His love for us.

 

Which brings me back to this warfare we are involved in.

For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the powers, against the world forces of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places.

 

For, what Paul is telling us here in this statement

      is that, with every issue in our lives,

            just as our calling is to discover the love of our God for us in the context of that issue,

so there will be demonic forces

      actively seeking to blind us to that love.

 

And then, from there,

      he goes on to explain to us

            the steps we can take

                  to defend ourselves against those attacks.

 

Now, we need to do some more with this whole thing,

      but we’ve run out of time

            so we’ll pick up our study here next week.